My second thought then went to all the intimate affairs we had -- a happy thought, but then an eeeeewwww!
I still haven't responded since I don't know what is right... Obviously I care about him as I do ALL people, I love everyone, I love meeting new people. So I would care to see how he is and hope that everything is happily blissful.
I wonder what his intent is? Why just a request, why not a message too? Why didn't he say I know it is been a long time, I just want to see how you are? Does he want to just stalk me -- is he just a # collector? Or is it really him -- maybe it is his significant other (had that happen before with another guy).
So what is the proper thing to do when an ex wants to friend you? I suppose I could accept and see what happens, if he bothers me then he goes! But I can guarantee there is no change of reconnecting in the state we were!!!!!!!
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